Why Should We Be Grateful?

“Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful.” Colossians 3:14 

  

  If you are alive today you have a reason to be thankful and grateful. Years ago, shortly after I had a major operation, I was angry and complaining about something. My wife rebuked me and told me I should be grateful I was alive and for everything I had. She was right. 

  Sometimes when we are bearing the weight of affliction, we can become so insular in our thinking that we fail to cultivate gratitude, thankfulness, and appreciation for what we have. If we are not careful, we can become “takers” who have no regard for anyone or anything except ourselves. 

  I have tried very hard to stay mindful of my blessings, and to appreciate doctors and nurses, family members and friends, even complete strangers, who have shown me kindness. It costs nothing and can mean everything to simply say: “Thank you!” 

  Even when I was too weak to move, even when I was in terrible pain, I said “Thank you!” to those who were helping me. I have made it a habit. I am grateful for any and all the help I have received and I hope you are as well. 

  It may seem difficult to be thankful and to remain grateful when in the throes of affliction. Pain and misery draw us inward, and can make us oblivious to those around us and the kindness directed our way. 

  We can take for granted the compassion and help of the “givers” and be seen as ungrateful “takers.” No matter how miserable we feel we want people to know that they are loved and appreciated. We need to remain grateful. 

  

  And let God know we don’t take His blessings for granted. That we are thankful and grateful for every kindness and blessing He sends our way. 

  Prayer: Dear Lord, forgive us our ingratitude, and help us to cultivate a habit of thankfulness. Amen.