The X Factor Of Illness

“Many are the plans in a person’s heart, but it is the Lord’s purpose that prevails.” Proverbs 19:21 

  

  The “X factor” is defined as a variable in a situation that could have the most significant impact on the outcome. (Dictionary.com) 

  I have been thinking about the X factor lately. I see it as the thing that takes all my well laid plans and tosses them into the dirt. The X factor shows up at my door too often, wrecking plans, postponing events, doing everything it can to sideline me. 

  The unforeseen event, the flare up, the worsening condition, the stressful situation coming out of the blue–these challenges have the power to change our plans and prevent our wishes from coming true. Maybe you have a trip planned, perhaps a vacation, maybe there is an event you have planned out for months, but then the X factor arrives and everything goes out the window. 

  We all have such disappointing times. They leave us disheartened and discouraged, angry, and disappointed. And it is often hard to get back up, to make additional plans for the future, to overcome the discouragement over our disabilities and illnesses. 

  How can we defeat the discouragement that comes from the X factor? Understand the X factor is there, it exists, and it could show up at any time. We must remind ourselves that because of chronic illness and afflictions we have a much greater likelihood of being visited by this unwelcome X factor. 

  We can steady our minds and emotions by understanding the reality of ongoing difficulties, and yet keep hope alive by continuing to make plans in spite of the chance of the X factor. We may not always get our desired outcome, but with the Lord’s help we will not be overthrown by unforeseen circumstances. 

  Prayer: Dear Lord, help us through the disappointments that come into our lives. Help us to get back up, and hope again, when disappointment strikes. Amen.