Thou wilt shew me the path of life: in thy presence is fulness of joy; at thy right hand there are pleasures for evermore. Psalm 16:11 (KJV)
The Covid-19 virus magnified many problems we have culturally. One problem was there all along, but became greatly magnified. Loneliness.
Widows and widowers, the aged, individuals who otherwise would be with friends and family suddenly found themselves at home staring at four walls.
Being ill and suffering from affliction also magnifies loneliness. What is intolerable in the best of times can feel like a catastrophe during days of endless warnings and bad news. With the news media focusing upon the worst-case scenarios, and everyone forced into a state of germaphobia.
During decades of affliction, I had to come to terms with loneliness. Despite loved ones around, suffering always makes us feel alone as no one can fully understand our dilemma. Even if yours is a chronic illness, flare ups of your condition can bring isolation and misunderstanding from friends and family who expect you to be as you were on the “better days”.
Many years ago, the Lord brought me a revelation of the fact that He is always with me through the presence of His Holy Spirit.
Neither shall they say, Lo here! or, lo there! for, behold, the kingdom of God is within you. Luke 17:21 (KJV)
Once you get a revelation of the fact that it is impossible for you to be entirely alone if you are a Christian, the fear that creeps inside due to loneliness will find you have a Companion within and loneliness has no place to dwell.
The Stoic philosopher Epictetus said that when we are alone, we should consider it tranquility and being like God, and when in the company of others consider it a celebration.
Those with strong spiritual roots and a conviction that the Lord is always with them fair the best during trying times. Once you understand, child of God, that the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit are within you, peace can replace fear, and joy can drive away loneliness.
You should reach out to friends and family, and seek the fellowship of others. But when you are alone, and especially when you are hurting, call upon Jesus, allow Him to bring comfort and peace to your troubled soul.
Prayer: Dear Lord, troubles beset us, fear seeks to fill our hearts and minds. We need Your Presence to remind us that we are never without help, nor are we ever truly alone. Amen.
Amen & amen! I also needed to read this, as I'm isolated in my bedroom to keep me away from chemicals on a beloved son who continues to contaminate our home with fragrances on him! Sooooo over MCS challenges! LOTSoluv Kerryn
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ReplyDeleteYou have my sympathy. I can't stand any strong fragrances, besides aggravating my CFS, they also trigger my asthma.
Blessings.
Karlton